Carer Profile: Angela
Angela is a seasoned foster carer who, together with her husband Shane, has built a vibrant and caring household. Their family includes seven children, some by birth and others by choice, with ages ranging from 29 years down to just 7. “It’s a busy household, but I just love kids and like to keep things moving,” Angela says.
Over the past 14 years, Angela has opened her home to more than 250 children, some staying for as little as 18 hours. The first few children she fostered brought unforgettable memories, and Angela chuckles as she recalls one of her early fosters: a mischievous 3 year old who, after watching her paint a wall, decided to redecorate her bathroom with makeup. She also fondly remembers when their black-and-white cat was transformed into a rainbow with a child’s textas. “It’s those funny little moments that stick with you,” she reflects.
Fostering has brought both challenge and joy, and it’s reshaped how Angela’s family views the world. “My kids have grown up understanding that not everyone has it the way we do,” Angela explains. They’re quick to welcome new children, aware that each one brings a unique story and sometimes a heavy burden. For Angela’s family, fostering has cultivated an ongoing sense of empathy, compassion, and resilience. “Saying goodbye is heartbreaking, but my family still opens their hearts for the next child that arrives.”
Angela’s advice for prospective foster carers is simple and direct: “Start with Respite. The training is great, but it can’t fully prepare you for the reality.” She notes that while the kids bring challenges, it’s often the system that creates the biggest hurdles. “The children often end up in care because adults have let them down. I remind myself of that when I see them struggle; you just have to be flexible and go with it.”
For Angela, fostering is a calling, and she remains motivated by the chance to provide love, security, and stability, even if only for a short while. “Despite everything, we keep going because while they’re with us, they’re safe and cared for,” she says, with a deep sense of purpose.
