Carer Profile: Belinda

Belinda, a seasoned youth worker with over 20 years’ experience supporting at-risk children, has dedicated herself to fostering alongside her partner, whose two adult children live independently. Her work in Out of Home Care (OoHC), both as a case manager and residential care worker, inspired her to take a proactive role in creating a positive impact for children in need.

Currently, Belinda and her partner care for a sibling group of three, including twin toddlers they have nurtured since their birth, and their older sibling who joined them at age two.

Fostering has brought immense joy and plenty of memorable moments for Belinda, from watching the twins take their first steps to seeing their progress as they learn to talk, show love, and grow out of nappies. “Every moment where I see children curious, joyful, and feeling connected is a memorable one,” she says. And while the rewards are deeply fulfilling, Belinda acknowledges that the role can be isolating at times, especially when caring for children with complex needs. “It can bring a lot of unsettled moments, and you and your partner need to support each other and stay on the same page.”

For prospective carers, Belinda’s advice is both practical and candid. “Know your boundaries, ask lots of questions, and make sure you and your partner are aligned on what you want.” She emphasises the importance of connecting with other carers, understanding rights, and joining networks like the FCAV to stay informed. “We’re the voice for these kids, especially the younger ones, so being vocal and advocating is crucial.”

Despite the emotional toll and stress of navigating the foster care system, Belinda’s motivation to continue comes from her love for the children and the hope of providing a permanent, stable home. “If not for the love I have for these kids, I wouldn’t be fostering any further,” she admits, feeling that the system’s slow pace and bureaucratic hurdles can often harm the children it’s meant to protect. “Carers need more of a voice in the decision-making process,” she says, stressing the need for a system that prioritises children’s wellbeing with speedier outcomes and effective supports.