Carer Profile: Marcus and Stephanie
Marcus and Stephanie describe themselves as “a young married couple with a busy household with our four biological children.” With both juggling work alongside family life and fostering, they say their home is “always active, supportive and filled with routine, structure and a lot of love.”
They currently care for younger children, “ranging from babies through early primary school age,” and have been fostering for “around 3–4 years.” In that time, they’ve welcomed multiple children, each with their own unique needs and personalities.
For Stephanie, the inspiration to foster came from a deeply held desire to be a steady presence for children in need. “I was inspired by the idea of giving children safety, stability and consistency during times when they need it most,” she explains. “I’ve always had a nurturing nature and fostering felt like a meaningful way to make a real difference in a child’s life.” She adds that Marcus “was happy to offer his support with my desire to be a foster carer.”
Reflecting on their journey, Stephanie says one of the biggest lessons she’s learned is that impact often shows up in the smallest moments. “A child feeling comfortable enough to laugh, settle into a routine or reach a new milestone in your care reminds you why you do this. Those little signs of trust stay with you.”
Fostering has also shaped their whole family. It has made them, Stephanie says, “more patient, compassionate and aware of what children go through behind the scenes.” Their own children have learned to “share space, time and be empathic,” and the experience has brought all of them closer “as we work as a team to support each child who comes into our home.”
For those considering becoming carers, Stephanie offers straightforward advice: “Go in with an open heart and realistic expectations. Fostering can be challenging but incredibly rewarding. Build a strong support system, communicate openly with your agency, and remember that stability and kindness go a long way.”
When challenges arise, she leans on calmness, structure, and connection. “I manage challenges by staying calm, sticking to routines and reaching out for support when needed.” What keeps her going is simple but powerful: “Even short-term care can change the trajectory of a child’s life. Seeing a child feel safe and settled makes every tough moment worth it.”
Looking ahead, Stephanie hopes to see greater systemic support for carers. “I’d love to see more consistent funding to cover rising costs of care and more recognition of carers and the vital role they play.”
